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  • Bored in Class

    It Seems You’re Bored in Class

    Bored in class? You keep looking at your phone, waiting for the time to match the “end time” of your current class. Everytime you look, the time seems to pass slower, your eyes heavier and your eagerness for that after class nap gets unbearable. You’re so bored in class, you’ve exhausted the imaginary scenario’s in…

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  • Mr. Bachelor in the sky above pink trees

    Love Yourself. You’re stuck with them after all.

    Who needs it? Everybody can use a little self love and there’s something to love about all of us. Want proof? I’ve met Jar Jar Binks’ lovers. Unfortunately, learning to love yourself can be difficult though. I see that a lot of the advice given is either one of two extremes. First, it is “Do…

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  • Mr. Bachelor behind a desk

    Keys to being a great mentor

    I originally didn’t want to write about this topic as I wasn’t sure it made sense for the brand that I’m building. I reconsidered when I thought about how turbulent my first few years in my career were from not having a great mentor. Now that I’m over a decade in, I figured I’d share…

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  • Self-care with Mr. Bachelor

    Self-care: A skill you need to learn

    Self-care is deceptively hard to learn Alright, I’m going to break the fourth wall a little here and let you know I’ve been working on this intro for several days. Self-care is hard and it’s a talent for those born knowing how to do it and a skill that most need to learn. I’ve touched…

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  • Mr. Bachelor showing a sunrise

    Morning Motivation: Why you Struggle to Get Out of Bed

    Morning people… We are not the same. You wake up looking for your next adventure and ready to get the day started. I wake up wondering why and ready to jump into episode 2 of the dream I was having. Then, I refuse to get out of bed until I’m satisfied that I’m no longer…

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  • Mr. Bachelor partying after a good day

    Rough Day? You Can Turn A Good Day Into A Great One

    Looking to have a great day? Now, to be honest, I’m more of a night owl so waking up in the morning has never felt “great” to me. In fact, mid way through my first meeting of the day, I’m usually zoning in and out of conversation trying to figure out how I’m going to…

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